Ask a Sister

Ask a Sister is a collection of short videos where members of the Haus cover a queer topic with the aims of helping to educate people or share our opinions on the issues.  These are released interspersed with Pure Nunsese on Youtube each week and can be viewed on the Utter Nunsense channel.

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  • Biggest challenges we currently face as queer people πŸ˜’
    • 17/07/2024

    Biggest challenges we currently face as queer people πŸ˜’

    Despite progress in legal rights and social acceptance, the LGBTQ+ community still faces significant challenges.

    In this video, we delve into the biggest issues: escalating discrimination and violence, mental health struggles, ongoing battles for trans rights, and the crucial need for better representation and visibility.

    Join us as we raise awareness and advocate for a world free from discrimination and prejudice. πŸ’ͺ✨

  • Why we're totally over 'love is love'
    • 26/06/2024

    Why we're totally over 'love is love'

    In this video, Sister Babeushka discusses why the phrase 'love is love' has become a platitude.
    While it was powerful during the marriage equality campaign, we now need more nuanced conversations that celebrate our diversity rather than simplifying our identities.

  • What does Prides mean to YOU?
    • 12/06/2024

    What does Prides mean to YOU?

    Join me, Sister Alaska, as I share what Pride means to me! πŸ’–

    Love, acceptance, and unity - Pride is more than a party! It's a statement that we deserve respect and dignity, every single day. Let's be proud, be visible, and support each other all year round. 🌟

    Watch now and tell me what Pride means to you in the comments! Let's spread love and joy everywhere we go! πŸ’«

  • Is 'CIS' a slur?
    • 22/05/2024

    Is 'CIS' a slur?

    Join Sister Alaska as she dives into the debate around the word "cis" – is it a slur or a neutral descriptor? πŸ€” Discover the origins of the term, its importance in discussions about gender identity, and why it's not something to be feared.πŸ’–

  • Is it really OK to expose kids to drag?
    08/05/2024

    Is it really OK to expose kids to drag?

    Is Drag Too Risky for Kids? 🎭 Sister Babeushka Has the Answer!

    In this enlightening video, Sister Babeushka tackles the hot-topic question: Is drag appropriate for kids? With their signature wit and wisdom, they delve into the world of drag, comparing it to beloved British pantomimes and emphasizing that, like all art forms, its suitability depends on the content.

    Drawing parallels between drag and family-friendly entertainment, Sister Babeushka encourages parents to do their research and make informed decisions about what's suitable for their children. Tune in to discover the truth about drag and its place in children's entertainment!

  • Why should you care about pronouns?
    • 17/04/2024

    Why should you care about pronouns?

    In this video, Sister Alaska dives into the importance of pronouns and why they matter more than you might think.

    Whether it's she/her, he/him, or they/them, using the right pronouns is about respecting someone's identity and validating their sense of self.

    Join us as we explore how pronouns create a safer and more inclusive environment, and why it's crucial to listen and learn when someone corrects you.

  • It gets better
    • 27/03/2024

    It gets better

    🌈✨ A Message of Hope from Sister Babeushka! ✨🌈

    In this heartfelt and uplifting video, Sister Babeushka shares words of encouragement for those who may be facing tough times due to bullying or lack of acceptance. 🌟

    Through their warm and compassionate words, Sister Babeushka reminds you that life does get better, and there's a vibrant community waiting to embrace you with open arms. πŸ€—πŸ’• Whether you're feeling lost or alone, know that you are loved, valued, and supported by the incredible queer family. πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ’œ

    Take a moment to soak in these words of wisdom and love – because you are not alone, and brighter days are ahead. Press play now for a dose of positivity and reassurance! πŸŽ₯πŸ’«

  • Are Bisexuals GREEDY? Busting common LGBTQ+ MYTHS
    • 13/03/2024

    Are Bisexuals GREEDY? Busting common LGBTQ+ MYTHS

    🌈✨ Debunking Myths: Ask a Sister about Common LGBTQ+ Misconceptions! 🌟 Sister Alaska is here to tackle misconceptions head-on, shattering stereotypes and spreading understanding.

    πŸ’¬ In this episode:
    🌈 "Bisexuals are Greedy or Promiscuous?"
    🌐 "Trans Women as Predators"
    🀷 "LGBTQ+ Individuals are All the Same"
    πŸ”„ "It's Just a Phase"
    🌈 "Being LGBTQ+ is a Choice"
    πŸ’– "LGBTQ+ Relationships are Less Stable"
    πŸ›οΈ "All LGBTQ+ People are Liberal"
    πŸ’Š "LGBTQ+ Individuals are More Likely to Abuse Substances"
    πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘¦ "Same-Sex Parents are Harmful to Children"
    🚫 "Asexuality is a Lack of Sex Drive or Apathy"

  • When does rainbow-washing become a problem?
    • 21/02/2024

    When does rainbow-washing become a problem?

    πŸŒˆπŸ€” Unveiling the truth about Rainbow Washing! πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆβœ¨

    Sister Babeushka spills the tea in this 'Ask a Sister' episode, tackling the difference between companies genuinely supporting the LGBTQ+ community year-round and those just chasing the rainbow for profit during Pride month.

    πŸ’–πŸŒ Join the conversation on allyship, authenticity, and why it's crucial to discern true advocates from the temporary rainbow enthusiasts.

  • Why are intersex people classed as LGBTQ?
    • 07/02/2024

    Why are intersex people classed as LGBTQ?

    Today, we're exploring the significance of including intersex individuals in the LGBTQIA+ community. Join us as we discuss the importance of understanding diverse experiences and fostering a united and inclusive space for all. πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆβœ¨


    🌐 Discover the reasons behind why intersex people are an integral part of the LGBTQIA+ family, and how embracing diversity enriches our shared journey. 🀝🌍

  • Why you should never 'out' a queer person
    • 10/01/2024

    Why you should never 'out' a queer person

    Why is outing someone so bad? πŸ€”βœ¨ We unravel the layers of this sensitive topic, exploring the impact on queer individuals and the importance of respecting personal boundaries. 🚫🀐


    🌈 Understanding the intricacies of outing is key to creating a safer and more supportive environment for everyone. Watch now to gain insights into the significance of letting individuals determine their own journey of self-disclosure. πŸŽ₯🌐

  • Finally answering the question 'what is a woman?'
    • 20/12/2023

    Finally answering the question 'what is a woman?'

    Sister Alaska navigates the tricky waters of this often-loaded question: what is a woman?

    From societal expectations to personal identity, together we'll explore the diverse factors that contribute to defining womanhood. Let Sister Alaska lead you in breaking down the societal complexities and debunking myths as we realise a more nuanced perspective on the multifaceted role of 'woman.'

    Let's shatter stereotypes and embrace inclusivity! 🌈✨

  • Why do we need Allies?
    • 06/12/2023

    Why do we need Allies?

    Unlock the power of allyship with our latest video! 🌈 Join Sister Babeushka as they dive into why allies are essential to the LGBTQ+ community. This video is a celebration of unity, understanding, and the strength we find in supporting each other.

  • From resistance to liberation - why trans rights matter
    • 15/11/2023

    From resistance to liberation - why trans rights matter

    Why is this a topic everyone should care about? Discover a future where you're free to be your authentic self. It's a future in which you can embrace a new reality of acceptance and love. Say "Yes!" to a world with liberation and equality for all genders. It's not just about breaking free from harmful societal restrictions; it's about the liberation of all genders. Watch now, and let's change the world together. Subscribe to embark on this transformative journey!

  • What can I do about Transphobia?
    • 11/10/2023

    What can I do about Transphobia?

    Join us in the fight against transphobia. Learn how to be a true ally to transgender individuals. Together, we can create an inclusive world. Watch, learn, and support. Like, share, and subscribe for a more accepting society.

  • Where have all the older queer folk gone?
    • 27/09/2023

    Where have all the older queer folk gone?

    Why are there so few queer elders? Watch as Sister Babeushka takes us through soon be of the reasons older members of the community might be less visible.

  • What's the difference between free speech and hate speech
    • 13/09/2023

    What's the difference between free speech and hate speech

    Have you ever seen people post horrible things on social media and claim it should be allowed because of 'free speech'? Sit with us as we explain what the different is between free speech and hate speech, and why they're not the same thing.

  • Is it OK to say 'queer'?
    • 23/08/2023

    Is it OK to say 'queer'?

    Many LGBTQ+ people refer to themselves as 'queer'. But why is that? And is the word queer secretly problematic? Watch to find out!

  • Are gendered toys bad?
    • 09/08/2023

    Are gendered toys bad?

    Enter any toy department and you're likely to see aisles divided into pink and dolls vs blue and trucks. But is it time to question they way we gender children's toys?

  • Why is 'passing' a problematic idea?
    • 19/07/2023

    Why is 'passing' a problematic idea?

    Trans and non binary people don't owe you gender performance, and that's the tea! Sister Alaska explains more behind passing isn't the goal and why we shouldn't measure others by how well they can 'pass'.

  • How YOU can be a better ally
    • 05/07/2023

    How YOU can be a better ally

    Sister Babeushka provides their top tips for how LGBTQ+ allies can level up their game πŸ™Œ

  • Should parents be told their kids are TRANS?
    • 14/06/2023

    Should parents be told their kids are TRANS?

    The 'trans debate' is in full swing. Headlines cry out about the risks around trans people in sport, trans people in media, and now they're focusing on transgender kids who start transitioning at school but hide their identity at home.

    So who's right? Do schools have a duty to inform parents that their child is using new pronouns at school? Or should schools respect the child's wishes and keep their secret?

    Watch to hear a Sister's take on whether schools should out trans kids to their parents.

  • How does conversion therapy affect people?
    • 23/05/2023

    How does conversion therapy affect people?

    Sister Babeushka addresses the harmful impact of conversion therapy, the practice of trying to 're-programme' queer people to stop being queer.

  • The Problem with 'Ex-Gay' Therapy
    • 10/05/2023

    The Problem with 'Ex-Gay' Therapy

    Sister Alaska shares xir thoughts on the controversial practice of conversion therapy - a practice which remains legal in many countries.

  • Does the trans community inspire you?
    • 19/04/2023

    Does the trans community inspire you?

    For trans day of visibility 2023, Sister Babeushka and Sister Alaska were asked, 'what about the trans community inspire s you'. Watch as they share their thoughts from the perspective of non binary members of the queer activist group, the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence.

  • Does trans visibility matter in 2023?
    • 05/04/2023

    Does trans visibility matter in 2023?

    For trans day of visibility 2023, Sister Babeushka and Sister Alaska were asked, 'why is trans visibility important'. Watch as they share their thoughts from the perspective of non binary members of the extremely visible queer activist group, the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence.